My Story

The reason why I started this website is to help others in need.

My wife passed away suddenly after suffering from a stroke. We did not prepare for this moment as we were both young and healthy.

When it happened, I was so lost, so afraid, so alone. In the moment when I was so vulnerable, I had to make arrangements for my beloved’s funeral.

It was such a painful experience. I hope I can help others in their hour of need, so that they do not need to go through as much pain as I did.This website serves as a guide to those who are in their hour of need.

My Wife;s Funeral

A bit about my history

I met my wife in secondary school when we were both in 6th Form. I always knew that she is the one I want to be with ever since I first laid eyes on her.

We went to different public universities, 150km apart, but that did not stop me. I visited her whenever I could. After graduation, we both started working in the Klang Valley. Eventually, we bought out own apartment and got married.

We were blessed with 3 boys. We were a very average happy family. That all fell apart when my wife complained of getting dizzy one day. She collapsed. At the hospital, CT scans reveal a brain hemorrhage, a very bad one. She was gone.

I was in grieve. It took 100 days before I could think straight again. That was when I decided it is time to give back. I want to help, especially my immediate family, on preparing for this eventuality. This is one thing which all of us will have to face one day, and there is no avoiding it. The best way, is to be prepared, so that our loved ones do not have to suffer so much.