FUNERAL GUIDE MALAYSIA
How to prepare for the Passing of a Loved One
What To Do When A Loved One Passes On
This website serves as a guide to those who are in their hour of need.
Navigating the funeral process, from the government processes, the legal processes, the financial processes and the religious rites, it is daunting at the best of times.
Trying to figure all these steps out when in extreme grieve, that is a superhuman task.
It is best to be prepared and plan ahead.
When it is not possible, then use this site as an emergency guide, and ask for help. We are here to help.
The Funeral Process
When a loved one passes, there are immediate steps which needs to be taken care of. This guide starts when our loved one is medically deceased, when their heart stops and the medical practitioner confirms the passing
When that happens, that is when the Funeral Journey map below starts. The Funeral Journey map is a step by step guide to the steps which needs to be taken.
The steps, other than the Funeral rites which are subject to different religions, is religion agnostic. The government processes, legal processes and financial processes remains the same no matter what religion you are.
Phase 1: First 4 Hours
This is the most difficult period. The shock of losing a loved one is still fresh in the mind. The steps here will help guide the next of kin in what needs to be done.
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Phase 2: Next 20 Hours
The next of kin will need to get plenty of rest before the Wake. The funeral parlour will handle the bulk of the work so that the family can grieve.
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Phase 3: 2 to 5 Days After
The next step is the Wake. During the Wake, either the next of kin or the Funeral Parlour can get the Death Certificate issued. The next of kin must also decide on the final resting place.
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Phase 4: Before and on 100 days
Prayers based on the religious preferences of the deceased are carried out. The government, financial and legal processes will need to be started to manage the assets, debts and belonging of the deceased.
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Phase 5: After 100 Days
The legal process takes time, and it is important to start it as soon as possible. If the deceased has a will prepared, the process is significantly shorter. Otherwise, it may take around 6 months.
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My Story
My wife passed away suddenly after suffering from a stroke. We did not prepare for this moment as we were both young and healthy.
When it happened, I was so lost, so afraid, so alone. In the moment when I was so vulnerable, I had to make arrangements for my beloved’s funeral.
It was such a painful experience. I hope I can help others in their hour of need, so that they do not need to go through as much pain as I did.This website serves as a guide to those who are in their hour of need.
How to prepare for the eventual passing of a loved one
When a loved on is very ill, and is likely to pass away, it is best to prepare ahead. The worst thing which can happen is to make decisions for the funeral arrangements when grieving. I went through that, and I wish that upon anyone. It is the most painful experience ever.
Choose the location for the final resting place
Choose the location which is most convenient to the next of kin. This will make it easier for the next of kin to pay their respects and also conduct the necessary prayers in the future.
Decide on the details for the funeral service and resting place
Once the location has been decided, the next step is to decide on the details like, the ceremony required, cremation or burial, etc. These details can add up to a lot of costs, so it is best to decide up front based on the budget.
Shop around for the best price and financing options
There are many seasonal discounts and promotions which may offer significant savings. Buying early allows the buyer to take advantage of such promotions. Financing options such as 12 month zero interest installment are also available and makes it an option to afford the funeral packages. Sometimes, even 48 month installment plans are available. Take advantage of these financing offers.
